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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SAFETY PLAN
Safety Plan for Preparation to Leave
Call shelter and let them know and let them know you are ready to leave. Do you have a car or other transportation? Yes/No Do you have or can you gather the following information?
* Identification for you and your children (birth certificates, passports, immunization records) * School records for your children * Money * Bank cards, bankbook, credit cards, financial documents * Passports and immigration papers (where applicable) * Medications, copies of prescriptions * Lease/rental agreement, house deed * Address book * Personal and children’s own special items/toys etc. (photographs, keepsakes) * Extra diapers, formula, necessary items for infant care
Personalized Safety Plan: When planning to leave
1. I will choose the code word __________and tell_______________________ (my children, a neighbor or friend, family members) so they will know to call police if I use that word. 2. I will arrange emergency transportation with _______________. I will keep my car parked __________________in a way that will be easiest to leave quickly. 3. I will lock up any weapons (guns, knives, baseball bat etc.) or store them where it will be harder to get these weapons. I will put _________ in _______. 4. I will plan an escape route with my children as follows. I will tell them it is a disaster plan so they will not alert my partner that we might leave. My plan is ___________________________________ continue on the back of this page. 5. I will tell _________________and ______________(friend, neighbor, family) about the violence in my home and ask them to call the police if they hear my code word or notice that anything unusual is happening. 6. I will go to the following safe place ______________or__________________ if I have to leave my home (friend, neighbor, relative, motel, shelter). 7. I will open my own bank account at __________________and leave my records with ______________.( friend, family) or hidden in ___________. 8. I will set aside money in ______________(empty lipstick tube or other unpredictable place, at a friend’s house). 9. I will put copies of important papers, birth certificates, social insurance number, health care numbers in___________________________(a safety deposit box, at a friend’s house, the trunk of my car). 10. I will be aware of my children’s ability to keep information confidential and will be careful to not share or have them overhear information that I do not want other people to know. This would include information such as ________________________________________________________________________ _ (plans to leave, location of extra keys, important papers, name and location of a friend who has agreed to help). 11. I will hide an extra car key in _______________________ where I can easily get it in a hurry. I will also keep my purse__________________________ where I can quickly grab it. 12. I will have extra key(s) cut by this date _________________ (example of keys – house, car, mailbox, safety deposit box, garage). I will have important papers photocopied by this date__________________ (examples include birth certificates, immigration papers, passports, health care cards, social insurance number, lease or house deed, prescriptions). I will have safety plan prepared and practiced by this date________________. I will have a bank account opened by this date _______________. I will have talked to friends and/or family and/or neighbor by this date ____________. I will have essential papers or photocopies, some clothes, special toys and keepsakes (photographs), medication packed and stored at ___________________ by this date ________________. 13. I will review my safety plan every _________________(week, month).
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